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We  have our one and only “Kuya” (brother), he’s the first  among us siblings then I’m next making me the eldest among my sisters. 

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Jhing, (Janice Arda) who’s now a mother of 3 boys is 2 years younger than me.. then came Bige (that’s what I fondly call her) or Kamil (Camille Abigaille) to most of her new friends, came after a gap of 13 yrs after Jhing. 

30756_395418058619_7983795_nme and jhing at miguelin street, sampaloc, manila where we grew up

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37403_406631558619_2998513_ncollege days

37403_406631498619_4184305_nswimming at lemery, batangas with mima’s office mates

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Jhing and I went to the same school during our elementary days. I remember us playing “Little Miss Philippines” and I love making sash and crowns for her. I always thought she’ll be a beauty queen by profession since she’s taller and fairer than me. We may also have different set of friends and different interests, but we would always share the same passion for food, we both love to eat! 



562954_10151090144523620_940671412_non our of our thursday family night dinners

We used to share the same bed when we we’re small, same room when we’re growing up and when she decided to be independent and left  the house at 18, I felt bad. We may not be the buddy sisters that you imagine but it’s a secure feeling to always have her around. I maybe older than her, but i’m the “iyakin”  (cry baby), and being the strong person that she is, she would always defend me whenever I’m in trouble. 

333180_10151137837758620_1310009126_oshe’s always mistaken as the ate 🙂

473116_10151137835943620_1006033759_oon one of our tripping dates

475206_10151176062888620_74697020_othursday famiy pig-out dinner

529692_10150707635633620_1087128782_nafter her bday celebration

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We may also have our own fair share of disappointments in life, conflicts and misunderstandings, but we would always be sisters by heart, and she’s dear to me. We would kiss and make up and unconditionally love, forgive and accept one another. I admire her for her courage, her strong character. Jhing would always  speak her mind, but with wisdom. She’s bolder to try different things and learn from them. Many years have passed and we’re making up for the lost times, as a matter of fact, we get to spend much time together now than before. 

…. Now let’s talk about my cool sister Bige. Cool in a sense that she’s always the wacky one, making us laugh, always with some fun joke up her sleeve. You will just know that she’s around simply because you can hear the doors banging, loud footsteps all over the place. Bige, being the youngest, just loves to be noticed. How will I get along with so many years without her is a mystery. 

462395_10150942043058620_567751637_omaybe about 3 days old, just got home from the clinic



459013_10150942037138620_399377671_oisn’t she lovely?

I’m with mom when she had her and  I’ve always watched her grow. Ever since she was small (well… until now, laughs), I’m always next to her, nursing her, changing her diapers, and I even bring her to the Pedia for her shots because Mom is busy working to provide for us. We always adored her, we we’re all so happy having a baby at home! We would always dress her up and we love playing with her, making her cry and laugh at the same time, hehehe! (sorry Bige, this sounded like we’re bullying…sort of) She had brown eyes, blonde hair and a fairer skin just like Jhing.

292133_10150978882993620_868706554_nplaying with my nikki

31406_395131353619_1929505_ntailored dress just for them 🙂

475170_10150942045953620_597386503_oher nursery graduation picture 

457750_10150942169963620_1576818871_oouting with family, its like I already have two daughters (Bige and Nikki)

181707_189695151054127_5604101_nhigh school graduation

She will always be my answered prayer.  For some of you who did not know, she also has a strong personality and always challenged, yet passionate and has a heart to serve.. but I must say, I’d prefer God to use her in a different way. I know God designed her to be like that, always influential and I want her to serve her purpose. On nights when she’s not at home and committed to staying at quarters as a ROTC officer and President of a Student Organization on PUP, I would really pray to God. I told Him that I want that same commitment, that  same passion and that same heart to serve be used for His glory alone, so again I prayed. 

33436_408099465425_4539554_nduring an event at PUP

26016_107274959296147_2254752_nang pogi dati ni sistah!

Many times I would cry out to God for the salvation of my family, and just when I surrendered and totally offered up everything unto the foot of His throne, her heart opened. God made an appointed time for Bige. God’s timing is always perfect… and about two years ago, Bige came to know the Lord.. There is a promise in the book of Acts and Galatians that I am still holding on.

11187_543395879017384_1817258387_nnow she’s currently helping out at Life Box

“They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved – you and your household.” – Acts 16:31

“Let us not become weary in doing good, for the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” – Galatians 6:9

Now Jhing’s successful in her own right, have her own family, her own place and even own a car. Her diligence and hard work paid off and I pray that she would also one day encounter You and experience the fullest of life in Your presence. 


857585_10151470970888620_2010608543_oblessing of her car and their new apartment

I know she’s happy now, but I know she can be happier with You. I claim that she would also know You in a more personal and intimate way. She’s always known You and I pray that you would also cause her to seek You more.

As for Bige, I’m humbled by the way I watch her serve You. I know we will always be imperfect but just the same, I honor her for taking up the cross as she took the mandate of discipling others. 

417630_553297331360572_1604740483_nBige facilitates at Victory Weekend, experiencing victory on Christ alone.

No words can express how blessed I am to be able to share life with these two beautiful women. May You continue to uphold the destiny that You have for both of them. I can never thank You enough for blessing them and always loving them.

I know You’re not yet through with my family, we’re being changed from glory to glory. But whatever way that pleases You, I continue to commit their lives to You, my Papa, Mima and Kuya. I know I am favored for having them.  

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Say to wisdom, “You are my sister,” and call insight your intimate friend, – Proverbs 7:4

The whole family loves you. Jhing and Bige, you are blessings from God!

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I honor you and I look forward to growing old and living a full life with both of you!




I love Caleb..actually not just me, but everybody else in the family… even friends and neighbors were so fond of him. I even call him El Paborito at times, for he’s the only nephew that practically grew up with me.. with the Arda-Boyles family..

we’re all so caught up with our little bundle of joy!

He came to this world right after we celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary…

He was about 5 months old when he first visited us and stayed in our place for about a month…it was my Nikki’s 12th bday celebration and Caleb was here to!

We we’re so surprised that he actually enjoyed the stay and has no tantrums at all…I suppose he also misses her mom but she’s quite busy attending to Caleb’s grandma  who suffered a stroke,  and to her older sister who was only a year older than him..and in that case, Caleb needs a nanny..and I am very much available for a substitute…(well,  my brother..Caleb’s father stays with us though)…

We are all having a great time whenever we’re with Caleb.. we love the way he laughs, giggles..and we often play around with him making funny faces…coz he’s so cool with it…

We even bring him along everywhere we go…a day out to manila ocean park…

To an overnight swimming at  Pansol, Calamba, Laguna

He loves the water…he can play around with it all day…Caleb’s cousin Macoy also loves to hang out with him..

As for  Mima’s first long drive to Tagaytay… food trips… and pictures takings.. Caleb’s in the house! 😛

We usually visit my in-laws at Muntinlupa during weekends..Papa Dodong loves Caleb too 😛

(isn’t  he lovable?)..he’s just 2 yrs old here..and look how such a cutee Caleb is… so stunning..

..we also bring him along while strolling around Festival Mall..

..and at  Southmall..How he loved the little rides with Papa Henry..(that what he calls my husband Henry)

…and on his first “kalbo” (semi-bald) haircut…see how he tumbles down because his head feels itchy 😛

Still so adorable..with or without hair, heheheh!!!

He even spends coffee time with us at Starbucks and throws crabbiness whenever we didn’t give in to his wishes…(btw..he wants the feel of the frappe :P).. this was after my 33rd bday dinner at Shakeys, UN  Avenue..

And on his 3rd Bday..we gave him a simple bday celebration here at B.Balic..his cousins graced his party? If you may call it like that even with only a few number of guests..:P

Ate Nikki also loves Caleb…who wouldn’t love such a charming baby?

… he’s so fascinating..and with a good sense of humor  too..

(Caleb pretends to be holding on to the edge of the building)

We also went to Baguio with Caleb for a vacation… played at the playground just across burnham park..

and went biking as well..

He’s also with us during some church activities and whenever our schedule permits, he attends church with us at VCF-GH

And don’t forget his most desired spot in GH..Timezone 😛

….this is where he can be at his best…the baby boy Caleb…during playtime at Timezone.. feels like he’s just like any other older guy there..playing basketball and contending with the rest of the guys.

Last holy week, we went home to our place at Imus, Cavite and we went swimming and horseback riding at Tagaytay…and there again, the vigorous  Caleb..who tirelessly plays full of life.

But there’s an end to matter how playful he is..his batteries also went off 😛

Almost 4 years have passed and Just recently..he was invited to be a coin bearer to a friend’s wedding..and time flies so fast.. our dear baby Caleb.. now proudly walks down the isle…(lol..just a coin bearer!)

…maybe you wonder why we spend so much time with Caleb.. it’s not only because he brings joy to our hearts..but because we also hope to fill an empty space in his innocent heart.. (his parents we’re having some marital problems, and the least we could do is give him a family wherein he will feel much loved, secure and appreciated). He doesn’t have to go through the confusions and hurt brought about by their present situation.. he may not understand the things going on around him.. but we can always be a family for him and the rest of his siblings.. I believe God has a plan for Caleb’s life.. I just pray that God would continue to uphold the destiny that He has in Caleb’s life…Long journey ahead of him..but we can assure him that we will always be with him every step of the way..because matter what..U R LOVED!



I never really knew what life was

Can’t feel hope, can’t share love

I am burdened with so much sadness

Blurred pictures all I see


But You felt for me

Touched my hand, said softly

How much You love me

How much You really loved me


Thank You Lord

You made me feel like this

Did not wait till I was better

Your love covers my sin

While I was still a sinner

You showed loved by Your death

Forgiving Lord, You loved us all..



All my days I walked in darkness

Having no direction

I have no one for me to turn to

I am lost and felt so empty

(Repeat Refrain, then Chorus)


Mercy & grace You bestowed upon me

I don’t even deserve to know You… (3x)

(Repeat Refrain, then Chorus)..then fade

..This is my composition last May 2002…

looking forward to put some melodies soon 🙂